Friends = Passersby of Life???
Received the letter I was talking about in the previous blog... Its a card actually with quite a lot of stuff written on it... Her name, if translated into English, is called Autumn Sparrow... =)
This is what I've wrote to her... I was thinking of asking a lot of my ex-close friends out for a gathering... However, I am afraid that I would be disappointed if I can't find back the same old feeling that we used to have... Time passes and people change I guess... So what if i manage to get everyone out but in the end, we got nothing to talk about... =p
In response, this is what she wrote in the letter (I try to translate wat she wrote in Chinese to English)...
As time goes by, we grow and our lifestyle changes... Topics that we once chatted about isn't the same anymore and environment that we are exposed to are different. Hence, its unavoidable for friends to drift further apart... We can never find back the old feelings that we all used to have... Or maybe we shall never try to look for those feelings... Its better to leave them as good, old memories and try to create new memories... She added "No news can actually means good news"... (U shd understand what it means... Just in case u dun, it means ur friends are most probably having peaceful and normal life... Hence no news of them...)
Finally, she ended with "I've learned ---- that we don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change..."
After finished reading the letter, i feel kinda sour... =p Are friends just passersby of life? Old friends will drift apart while new friends come... And this cycle will just go on and on and on................ I hope not... Or i will be very sad...
This is what I've wrote to her... I was thinking of asking a lot of my ex-close friends out for a gathering... However, I am afraid that I would be disappointed if I can't find back the same old feeling that we used to have... Time passes and people change I guess... So what if i manage to get everyone out but in the end, we got nothing to talk about... =p
In response, this is what she wrote in the letter (I try to translate wat she wrote in Chinese to English)...
As time goes by, we grow and our lifestyle changes... Topics that we once chatted about isn't the same anymore and environment that we are exposed to are different. Hence, its unavoidable for friends to drift further apart... We can never find back the old feelings that we all used to have... Or maybe we shall never try to look for those feelings... Its better to leave them as good, old memories and try to create new memories... She added "No news can actually means good news"... (U shd understand what it means... Just in case u dun, it means ur friends are most probably having peaceful and normal life... Hence no news of them...)
Finally, she ended with "I've learned ---- that we don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change..."
After finished reading the letter, i feel kinda sour... =p Are friends just passersby of life? Old friends will drift apart while new friends come... And this cycle will just go on and on and on................ I hope not... Or i will be very sad...
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